非常感謝您特別來信詳細的說明，我今天下午也給Ms. McDermott

非常感謝您特別來信詳細的說明，我今天下午也給Ms. McDermott發了一封訊息，我真的非常感謝妳、Mr. Paul、以及Ms. McDermott願意在這件事情上為我們幫忙，讓我們能更試著了解這整件事情，進而想辦法瞭解和幫助Miya！真的非常感謝！今天我在Miya放學回家後，有再次與她討論並了解這整件事情的過程，我很欣慰Miya終於願意說出這整件事和她心裡的感受。以下是我了解的詳細內容：1、一開始是Miya跟Saki在玩一個遊戲，Miya是老師、Saki是學生，所以Miya坐在椅子上要講故事給Saki聽，而Saki則是坐在離Miya很近的前方地板上，Ian和Eunice在她們附近玩。2、後來Eira也來加入要跟Miya她們一起玩，但因為Eira來時，她的位置是在Saki前面坐下，大家都想看Miya手上的書，所以就更靠近Miya的腳前面，Miya覺得這樣很擠很不喜歡，於是她第一次口氣很好的跟Saki說，「妳可以坐過去那邊嗎？」Saki也有願意稍微移動了一下。3、但就在這個時候，Ian聽到Miya說的話後，跑來跟Miya說：「妳又不是管理秩序的人，妳不可以要求Saki去坐哪裡。」後來Ian就跑去Saki and Eira後面拍她們的頭玩一種數數點人的遊戲，最後數到是Saki，lan就說YA！然後離開到旁邊。這時候Miya又說了一下故事後，還是覺得很擠，她又再跟Saki 說了好幾次請她坐到另一邊，但Saki說她不要，就在這時候Miya用手打了Saki的額頭，然後Saki就離開了，Miya說Saki走掉後，她還是繼續在跟Eira說故事，然後Eira就出去玩了，她就把書拿去放，接著老師就請她過去了。Miya這次終於願意打開心房完整的說出事情的經過，這就讓我心中所有的疑問獲得解答。1、Miya雖然常常搗蛋，但當時她們是很開心正在玩一種遊戲，所以我一直很納悶Miya動手的動機是什麼？真的是老師所說因為Ian的指責，Miya不開心就無理的動手打Saki嗎？今晚當Miya明確告知我，她因為感到很擠，希望Saki換過去那邊坐，但因為說了很多次Saki都不要所以她也有點不開心就直接反應動手打了Saki的額頭。我這才清楚明白Miya動手的動機，但我有跟Miya說：「不管妳再有什麼理由，動手就不對！以前哥哥生氣動手，就算問題是妳的不對，我也是懲罰哥哥，那是為什麼？」Miya說：「因為哥哥動手」，我再次跟Miya強調：「對，因為就算再有理，動手了就是不對！妳覺得很擠妳可以再跟Saki好好溝通說明白，就算人家還是不願意，妳也可以自己想解決的辦法，而不是直接動手。」2、Miya說她一開始的時候真的是有好好跟Saki說：「那妳可以坐這裡嗎？」Saki確實也移動了一下，這時在附近跟Eunice玩的Ian只是聽到Miya這樣說，跑出來表達他覺得不合理的想法：「妳又不是管理秩序的人，妳不可以要求Saki去坐哪裡。」而這件事上，我想Ian是並不清楚Miya和Saki正在玩的遊戲，也並不清楚Miya是為什麼希望Saki坐過去別的地方的原因，所以他純粹覺得Miya這樣說是不對的，而Ian的話讓Miya能明確感覺到Ian認為她是霸道的。我想Miya的說法也正好解釋了妳對於這部份的疑問，因為Miya一直覺得自己有好好口氣問Saki ，Miya的動手也不是因為不開心被Ian說霸道就打了Saki。3、lan說完那些話後，Miya當時仍繼續在說故事，然後lan繞去Saki和Eira後面弄了她們的頭，此時衝突仍尚未產生，而是後來Miya又再多次要求Saki到旁邊的位置，衝突就是在此刻才發生的。而這時Eira就在Saki旁邊、lan和Eunice也在她們附近，所以她們三人剛好就有看到Miya動手。這也連結了Miya告訴我lan有去弄Saki跟Eira頭的事實。在瞭解完事情的真相後，我有問Miya把真話說出來的感覺怎麼樣？是不是覺得很輕鬆？她說：「是的！」我問Miya心裡的想法：「為什麼妳不敢直接說出來妳做錯的事？」Miya說：「因為害怕受處罰！」我們告訴她：「因為害怕妳就會說更多的謊言，但任何謊言都是會被發現的。而因為說了謊言，妳的心會更充滿害怕，因為妳會隨時害怕謊言被發現。」我再問Miya：「妳現在說出來了，妳心裡還會覺得害怕嗎？」Miya說：「現在不會再有怕被發現的害怕感覺了。」我們讚賞她終於勇敢說出來這整件事，並鼓勵教導她！未來更應該這樣勇敢面對自己的錯誤，趕走心裡可怕的魔鬼！然後，我們帶著她一起禱告。之後我們告訴Miya，做錯事情勇敢承認錯誤都是可以原諒的，當妳不知如何解決時，我們會教導她並和她一起想辦法解決，但我們也必須讓妳知道做錯事情，妳是必須為自己的行為負責任，因此今年聖誕節請聖誕老公公不用送妳的禮物來了。在我們家，一年孩子只有2次可以獲得禮物的機會，Miya都非常期待因此當她聽到她的處罰時，她流下了很傷心的眼淚，在我們跟她解釋後，她也願意接受了。我們希望她明白，我們這樣做不是為了要處罰她，而是希望她能記住不要再犯同樣的錯，希望她都能更勇敢面對錯誤做的更好。最後，我們還是很感謝上帝、也很感謝你們協助，讓我們和Miya都能因為這件事而有所成長，希望你們能持續給予Miya教導和鼓勵，我相信Miya一定一定會改進且更進步的。

結果 (英文) 1:

Thank particular a detailed description of your letter, I have this afternoon to Ms. McDermott sent a message, I really appreciate u, Mr. Paul, as well as Ms. McDermott willingness on this matter to help us, let us try to be more understanding of the whole thing, and then find ways to understand and help Miya! thank you very much!

Today, after I came home from school in Miya, discussed with her again and understand the process of this whole thing, I am very pleased Miya finally willing to tell the whole thing and felt her heart. The following are the details I know:
1, starting with Miya Saki playing a game, Miya is a teacher, a student Saki, so Miya sitting in a chair listening to tell the story to Saki, and Saki is sitting off Miya on the floor close to the front, Ian and Eunice playing near them.
2, then keep Miya Eira have to join them to play with, but because Eira, her position is to sit down in front of Saki, we all want to see the book Miya hand, so the front of the foot even close to Miya, Miya think this is very crowded very fond of, so her first good tone with Saki said, "u can sit over there do?" Saki is also willing to move a little bit.
3, but at this time, Ian heard Miya said, came with Miya said: "Niyou not management order person, u can not ask Saki where to sit." Later, Ian ran Saki and Eira behind the beat their head man playing a counting game point, the final count is Saki, lan said YA! Then left to the next. After this time a little story Miya said, still felt very crowded, she talk to Saki said several times asked her to sit on the other side, but Saki said she was not, at this time Miya cuffed Saki forehead, then Saki left, Miya said after Saki gone, she continued talking with Eira story, Eira and then went out to play, she put the book take place, then the teacher asked her over.
Miya has finally willing to open atrium complete say what happened, which let my mind all the questions get answered.
1, Miya though often naughty, but then they are very happy're playing a game, so I've always wondered what Miya hands-motivated? Really it is because the teacher said Ian accusations, Miya unhappy Saki on unreasonable beat it? Miya tonight when explicitly told me, she was very crowded, want Saki change over there and sit, but because Saki said many times so she do not have a little fun on the direct reaction beat Saki forehead. This way, I clearly understand the motivation Miya hands, but I have told Miya said:! "No matter what u have another reason not to start work before his brother angry hands, even if the problem is u wrong, I punish my brother is, why is that? "Miya said:" because my brother hands ", I re-emphasize with Miya:!" Yes, because even then justified, hands is wrong u think u can talk very crowded Saki properly communicate understand that, even if people still do not want to, u also they want a solution, rather than direct hands-on. "
2, Miya said she really is a good start with Saki said:?" what about you can sit right here, "Saki indeed move a bit, then in near Eunice playing with Ian just heard Miya said, ran out to express his unreasonable idea: "Niyou not management order person, u can not ask where to sit Saki"  and on this matter, I would like to Ian is not clear Miya and Saki are playing a game, it is not clear why Miya hope Saki reason to sit elsewhere in the past, so he felt pure Miya say is wrong And Ian's words Miya Ian can clearly feel that she is overbearing. Miya I would like to say u have just explained the questions about this part because Miya always felt that they have a good tone to ask Saki, Miya's hands are not happy because they do not say Ian handed hit Saki.
3, lan finished those words, Miya was still continuing to tell a story, then go around the back of Saki lan and Eira get their head, this time the conflict is still not yet produced, but then again repeatedly asked Miya next to Saki the location, at the moment only conflict is occurring. And then next to Saki, lan and Eunice are also nearby Eira on them, so the three of them just have to see Miya hands. It also links the Miya told me to go and get Saki lan facts with Eira head.

After understanding the truth, I have to ask how Miya real words come out feeling like? Is not that easy? She said: "Yes!" I asked Miya heart idea: "Why not say it directly u u wrong thing?" Miya said: "! Fear punished" We told her: "Because fear will u said more lies, but lies are any will be found and because to say lies, your heart will be more full of fear, because fear will keep u lie was found, "I ask Miya:.." u speak out now ?, and u will feel my heart to fear them, "Miya said:" now there will not be afraid to feel the fear of being discovered, "we appreciate she finally gathered the courage to speak out the whole thing, and encouraged her to teach.! Future should such a brave face their own mistakes, get rid of my heart horrible devil! Then, we pray together with her.
After we told Miya, courage to admit mistakes is wrong things can be forgiven, when u do not know how to solve, we will teach her and with her to find a solution, but we must let the wrong things You know, u is a must accountable for their actions, so Santa Claus this Christmas, please do not Songnai gift came. In our family, the children only twice a year, the opportunity to get gifts, Miya are very much looking forward so when she heard her punishment, she was very sad shed tears, after we explained to her, she is willing to accept. We want her to understand that we are not doing this in order to punish her, but I want her to remember not to make the same mistake, I hope she can be more brave to do better error.
Finally, we are still very grateful to God, and thank you for help, and let us Miya because it can vary grow, I hope you will continue to give Miya teaching and encouragement, I believe Miya certainly will improve and more progress .

結果 (英文) 2:

Thank you very much for your special letter details, I also give Ms. McDermott sent a message, and I really appreciate you, Mr. Paul, and Ms. McDermott is willing to help us in this matter so that we can try to understand the whole thing and find a way to understand and help Miya! Thank you so much!

Today, after returning home from home from Miya school, I have discussed and understood the whole thing again, and I am glad that Miya is finally willing to say the whole thing and how she feels. Here's what I know:
1, starting with Miya playing a game with Saki, Miya is a teacher and Saki is a student, so Miya sits in a chair to tell a story to Saki, while Saki sits on the floor in front of Miya, near miya, where Ian and Eunice play.
2, later Eira also came to join them to play with Miya, but because Eira came, her position is in front of Saki sat down, everyone wants to read Miya's hand in the book, so closer to Miya's feet, Miya felt so crowded very disliked, so she first breath edgy with S "Can you sit over there?" Saki is also willing to move a little.
3, but that's when Ian heard Miya say something, he ran up to Miya and said, "You're not the one who manages the order, you can't ask Saki to sit." Later Ian ran behind Saki and Eira to pat their heads and play a game of counting people, and finally counted Saki, lan said YA! Then leave to the side. That's when Miya said the story again, still feel very crowded, she said to Saki several times to ask her to sit on the other side, but Saki said she did not, just then Miya hit Saki's forehead with his hand, and then Saki left, Miya said Saki left, She continued to tell the story to Eira, and then Eira went out to play, and she took the book and let her go, and the teacher asked her to pass.
Miya this time is finally willing to open the atrium to tell the whole story of the past, which lets my heart all the questions to be answered.
1, Although Miya often trouble, but at that time they are very happy to play a game, so I have been wondering what Miya's motivation? Is it really the teacher's claim that Because of Ian's accusations, Miya is not happy to hit Saki without reason? Tonight when Miya explicitly informed me that she felt very crowded and wanted Saki to sit over there, but because she said many times saki didn't want her to be a little unhappy so she was a little unhappy and hit Saki's forehead directly. I knew exactly what Miya was motivated by, but I said to Miya, "Whatever the reason, it's not right!" Before the brother angry to start, even if the problem is your wrong, I also punish brother, that is why? Miya said, "Because my brother did it," and I again stressed to Miya, "Yeah, because even if there's any reason, it's wrong!" You feel very crowded you can then communicate with Saki good understanding, even if people still do not want to, you can also think of their own solution, rather than directly do. 」
2, Miya said she really had a good time with Saki at the beginning, "Can you sit here?" Saki did move a little, too, when Ian, who was playing with Eunice nearby, just heard Miya say so, running out to express what he thought was unreasonable: "You're not the one who manages the order, you can't ask Saki to sit." And in this case, I don't think Ian is aware of the game Miya and Saki are playing, or why Miya wants Saki to sit somewhere else, so he simply thinks It's wrong for Miya to say that, and Ian's words make it clear that Ian thinks she's overbearing. I think Miya's statement also explains your question about this part, because Miya has always felt that he has a good breath to ask Saki, Miya's hands are not because I am not happy by Ian to say bullying hit Saki.
3. After Lan had said those words, Miya continued to tell the story, and then Lan went around Saki and Eira to get their heads around them, at which point the conflict had not yet occurred, but then Miya repeatedly asked Saki to the next position, the conflict occurred at this moment. And this time Eira was right next to Saki, lan and Eunice were close to them, so the three of them just happened to see Miya do it. It also links the fact that Miya told me that Lan had to get Saki and Eira heads.

After learning the truth of the matter, I asked Miya how it felt to tell the truth. Don't you feel very relaxed? She said, "Yes! I asked Miya what he thought: "Why don't you just say what you did wrong?" Miya said, "For fear of punishment!" We told her, "For fear you will tell more lies, but any lies will be discovered." And because you tell a lie, your heart will be more scared, because you will always be afraid of lies to be discovered. I asked Miya again, "Do you still feel afraid when you say it now?" Miya said: "There is no longer any fear of being found." We appreciate her courage to speak out and encourage her to teach her! The future should be so brave to face their own mistakes, get rid of the heart of the terrible devil! Then we took her to pray with us.
Then we tell Miya that it's forgivable to do something wrong and admit it, and when you don't know how to fix it, we'll teach her and work with her to find a solution, but we also have to let you know that you're doing the wrong thing, that you're responsible for your actions, so this Christmas please come without a gift from your husband. In our family, where children get gifts only twice a year, Miya is looking forward to it, so when she hears about her punishment, she sheds a very sad tear, and after we explain it to her, she is willing to accept it. We want her to understand that we are not doing this to punish her, but that she will remember not to make the same mistake again, and that she will be more courageous in confronting her mistakes and doing better.
Finally, we thank God and for your help, so that both we and Miya can grow up because of this, i hope you will continue to give Miya teaching and encouragement, I believe That Miya will certainly improve and progress.

結果 (英文) 3:

Thank you very much for your special letter. I also sent a message to Ms. McDermott this afternoon. I really appreciate that you, Mr. Paul, and Ms. McDermott are willing to help us in this matter, so that we can try to understand the whole thing better, and then find a way to understand and help Miya! Thank you very much!
Today, I went back home from school to discuss and understand the whole thing with Miya again. I'm glad that Miya is finally willing to say the whole thing and her feelings. Here are the details of my understanding:
1. At the beginning, Miya and saki are playing a game. Miya is a teacher and saki is a student. Therefore, Miya is sitting in a chair to tell saki stories. Saki is sitting on the front floor near Miya. Ian and Eunice are playing near them.
2. Later Eira also came to play with Miya and them. But when Eira came, she sat down in front of Saki. Everyone wanted to read Miya's books, so she was closer to Miya's feet. Miya thought it was very crowded and disliked it. So she said to saki for the first time, "can you sit over there?" saki was willing to move a little.
3. But at this time, when Ian heard Miya's words, he came to Miya and said, "you are not the person who manages the order. You can't ask saki to sit anywhere." then Ian ran to saki and Eira takes pictures of their heads behind them to play a game of counting people. At last, when it's saki, LAN says ya! And then she leaves. At this time, after telling the story, Miya still feels very crowded. She and saki again She asked her to sit on the other side several times, but saki said she didn't want to. At this time, Miya hit saki on the forehead with her hand, and saki left. Miya said that after saki left, she continued to tell Eira a story, and Eira went out to play. She put the book away, and then the old teacher asked her to go.
Miya is finally willing to open her heart and tell me the whole story, which makes all the questions in my heart answered.
1. Although Miya often makes trouble, they were very happy and playing a game at that time, so I always wondered what the motivation of Miya ' Because she was a little unhappy, she directly reflected that she hit saki on the forehead. I understood the motivation of Miya's action, but I said to Miya, "no matter what reason you have, it's not right to start! My brother used to be angry and start, even if the problem is your fault, I'm punishing my brother. Why?" Miya said, "because my brother started." I emphasized to Miya again: "That's right, because even if it's reasonable, it's not right to start! You think it's very crowded. You can communicate with saki and make it clear. Even if people still don't want to, you can think of solutions by yourself, instead of directly doing it."
2. Miya said that at the beginning, she really said to saki, "can you sit here?" saki did move a bit. At this time, Ian, who was playing with Eunice nearby, just heard Miya say this and ran out to express his unreasonable idea: "you are not the person in charge of order, you can't ask saki to sit there."  in this case, I think Ian is not Knowing the game Miya and saki are playing, and why Miya wants saki to sit in other places, he just thinks that it's wrong for Miya to say that, and Ian's words make Miya feel that Ian thinks that she is domineering. I think Miya's words also explain your doubts about this part, because Miya always feels that she has a good voice to ask saki , Miya's action is not because Ian said that she beat saki because she was not happy.
3. After Lan said those words, Miya was still telling the story. Then LAN went around saki and Eira and got their heads. At this time, the conflict still hasn't occurred. Later, Miya asked saki to go to the next position again and again. The conflict just happened at this moment. At this time, Eira was right next to saki, and LAN and Eunice were also near them. So the three of them happened to see Miya move Hand. It also connects Miya to tell me the fact that Lan went to get saki and Eira's head.
After knowing the truth of the matter, I asked Miya how she felt about telling the truth? Did she feel very relaxed? She said, "yes!" I asked Miya's mind, "why don't you dare say what you did wrong?" Miya said, "because of the fear of punishment." we told her, "because of the fear, you will tell more lies, but any lies will It's found. And because of the lies, your heart will be more scared, because you will be afraid of the lies being found at any time. "I asked Miya again," now that you have said it, will you still feel afraid? "Miya said," now there will be no fear of being found. "We appreciated that she finally said the whole thing bravely, and encouraged to teach her! The future should be more So face your mistakes bravely and drive away the terrible devil in your heart! Then, we pray with her.
Later, we told Miya that it's forgivable to admit mistakes bravely when you do something wrong. When you don't know how to solve it, we will teach her and work with her to find a solution, but we must also let you know that you have done something wrong. You must be responsible for your actions, so this Christmas please be holy