Are you afraid she can not refuse? If you are willing to help her, the money can also immediately her, not to dwell there, explain to him just for the money
You're afraid you can't refuse her? If she is willing to help, the money can be returned to her immediately, no more entanglement, to explain to him only for the money
Are you afraid that you can't refuse her? If she is willing to help, the money can be returned to her immediately. Don't bother with him again. Explain to him that it's only for money